Do You Need A Life Coach? 5 Shocking Signs...
Updated: Jan 17
Do You Need A Life Coach? 5 Shocking Signs
A coach is one that leads us to victories in life. They teach us the skills we need to be successful, help us live as better people and become our biggest cheerleader. A life coach is no different. We have five shocking signs you need one of these life coaches in your own life.
If you feel like you're stuck in the mud trying your best to get out, but cannot seem to move your feet, you're stuck. If you feel like you're stuck in a rut, you need guidance to get out of that hole. If you feel like you just circle around the same problems without any solutions, you need help.
It's all about getting to the next level. It's the same as when you're playing a video game and you need to level up. You have to try new ways to get to the next level. It's hard to figure out the way to climb out of your hole alone.
You might blame yourself for not being able to move out of the hole. It's not your fault. You just need a little push from someone that understands how to play the game of life.
You've Lost The Confident Person You Once Were
At one point in time you remember a fun, confident person. Now you can't remember where you put that person. You only see things in black and white without much excitement of color. Everything is gray and dreary.
This didn't have to happen overnight. You could've gone through some tough times like a bad break up or the loss of a job to land you in a land where you no longer know yourself. Over time it could be that you just lost the fire within you due to life itself. Sometimes in life we're so focused on what society expects of us that we forget the person inside of us. You start to be this other person and lose the one with all of the power. Soon you don't even recognize your own smile in the mirror.
Find a life coach that will help you piece yourself back together complete with a smile.
You Lack Ambition
You're at age to be an adult, yet you feel like a teenager. Everyone's always asked you about what you want to be when you grow up. You're "there" and have no clue. Society wants you to have this little yellow brick road headed to retirement. You're supposed to know everything you want along this journey.
The good news is that you don't have to have it all figured out no matter your age. Life is always changing. Your emotions and spirits don't have to stop growing. You can find the ambition within years after people stop asking what you want to be when you grow up.
The answer is that you don't ever have to "grow up." You have to do grown up things, but working with a life coach means finding this ambition that lets you find the things you love and want to do in life. It doesn't mean being a boring, old person. Growth within yourself is important to your overall happiness as a person.
One of the benefits of life coaching is having a coach that helps you find this right track for your specific passions in life.
Your Exterior Life Is Perfect While You're Falling Apart Inside
Your life on social media and at social gatherings seems "perfect." Your house may be big, your family may look like a commercial and/or you seem confident beyond belief, but on the inside you're a mess. You live a life on the inside full of anxiety and depression. You're hanging on by a thread wondering when everything is going to fall apart. You start to compare yourself to everyone else around you.
They all seem to have a it a little better than you. Maybe your life isn't horrible, but it's going to fall apart at any moment. Your inner voice is telling you that you won't ever be good enough to be successful. This type of stress takes away all of the joy in your life. By constantly comparing yourself, you're losing the excitement in the good things of your life.
One of the benefits of life coaching is they can help you understand these negative thought patterns, and turn them into positive thought patterns. You'll be able to forgive yourself for living in the darkness so long. You'll be able to understand life can be good without constant fear of failure.
You Want And Need More Out Of Life
Maybe you've accomplished everything on your list and on society's list of successes. Maybe you're not living in fear. Maybe you're just staring into the future wondering where you go from here. Wanting and needing more out of life is okay.
After you graduate college, get married and/or get a big time job, you may find yourself wondering how you can do anything else above these things in life. There's a long journey ahead of you. It's important you learn to stay focused on more than one thing.
You don't have to have a million wins, but you can live a nice life full of little wins here and there with big wins sprinkled in. It's normal to worry your journey is done after your dreams come true. Keep trudging on because there's so much more to come.
Find a life coach you love that will help you love yourself again at SGMyLife. Contact us for more information and pricing. Get ready to change your life for the better.